Human beings are strange beings. They spend their entire lives searching for love, searching for character traits in their mates that would enable them to live peacefully. So, they look for people, to maintain their own happiness! While that may be strange to understand or comprehend, love is what keeps us going. And to love, we always desire certain characteristics in our partner, without which we wouldn’t consider the relationship to be compatible.
So, what do men look for in women, when they plan to woo them?
1. Composed
A man wants a woman who can stay calm and composed under duress. Someone, who would handle any situation with a level head, and also, at times, bring forth solutions that eluded us. A man would always love a woman more, whom he knows, wouldn’t go impulsive when the moment suits her.
2. Hygiene
Men want women with a good sense of hygiene. Someone, who would like to be clean, and scrubby. Mind you, I am not talking about a kook, or an OCD afflicted person. Just someone, who would like to stay neat and tidy, and whose wardrobe, would be filled with clothes, all aligned properly.
3. Ingenuity
Men love women who are ingenious. When the whole world is trying to devise an intricately complicated solution to a problem, a man would always turn towards his soul mate, because he knows that she would bring forth an innovative idea, that would solve the problem, and be exceedingly simple to understand. And lo, and behold, she would ace it.
4. Fidelity
A man wants his woman to be loyal to him, no matter the situation or circumstance. He trusts her to be just his, and he would be devastated if his woman suddenly turned her back on him, when he most needed it. Men love their women to be supportive, and devoted, for “behind every strong man, is a woman who never gave up”.
5. Sincere
Men want their woman to be sincere and not hypocritical towards life in general. All sorts of masks and facades are inadmissible when it comes to love. One has to be frank, and show the other person their real face, in order to be fully acknowledging of the fact that both partners are head over heels in love.
6. Experimental in the Bedroom
This makes men go wild. They want their woman to be as kinky as possible in the bedroom. This spices up their sex life, and as we have known since ages, a good sex life determines a good relationship. The same position throughout your life is like the same bowl of oat meal every day- it gets boring after a while.
7. Optimism is the Key
In this world of depression and troubled minds, men would give their right arm to find someone, who is optimistic to the core. Someone, who would withstand hell if need be. Someone would always see the silver lining, among the darkest of clouds. Someone, who wouldn’t ever lose hope.